Love and Forgive – for your own good!!!

01 Aug

Spiritual knowledge can keep your mind peaceful

My son just got back from his exams and there was a nice little story for his language comprehension section. He gave this paper to me (quite unusual and asked me to read the passage – which was a lovely story). It was such a conincidence that the currently active topic appears in the question paper. The theme – why it is better to forgive than nurse hatred within.

He wanted to know what could be the morals… So please keep posting the moral of the story (He can learn 🙂 and he already thanks everyone in advance.

Here is the unadulterated version as it appeared in the question paper.

A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a person that the Child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes.

The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.

Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags.

After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.

The teacher asked: ‘How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?’ The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The teacher said: ‘This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime???’

Apart from some basic story related questions, the last question was “What are the learning from this story?”

Based on listening to  Pujya Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar during various Art of Living Satsangs and my learnings from the same, My answer to him:

Learnings :

It is better to forgive and love for our own good (rather than carry the stench)

Destiny decides who comes across into our lives and our actions decide who stay on in our lives (Fate vs Heart)


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8 responses to “Love and Forgive – for your own good!!!

  1. sujatha

    August 1, 2012 at 10:20 am

    a story all should read and apply….wonderful…as usual sureshji 🙂

    and this is suja mohan…if u r wondering who sujatha is 🙂

    • Ensures

      August 4, 2012 at 12:52 am

      I knew it Doctorjee 🙂

  2. Chhavi Methi

    August 1, 2012 at 12:18 pm


    For me the moral of the story is as the teacher said its a burden ….to carry even hatred .. So why hate ?? We should be always try to be neutral to people and the situations ….

  3. Vipul Agarwal

    August 2, 2012 at 6:06 am

    Nice and inspiring story Sureshji.

  4. agnyaa

    August 2, 2012 at 10:17 am

    extraordinary… learning written at the last is the BEST.. I will follow it henceforth 🙂

  5. rajkumarbhatnagar

    August 2, 2012 at 10:39 am

    if somebody wants to do PHD on u, its better to allow him, rather then we do PHD on someone 🙂

  6. mkailkhura

    August 2, 2012 at 5:27 pm

    Nice story 🙂 Dropping the stinking baggage of hate seems so much wiser and smarter! Thank you Ensures for reminding us to travel light and free! I am especially reminded of the pain of heavily burdened anonymous haters. God Bless them!

  7. meenaldimri

    September 23, 2012 at 4:21 pm

    hatred breeds contempt………….love & forgive.Our life is too small to waste on hatred………live & let live


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